Tell her because it means a lot to you. You know she won’t like it, but maybe she’ll like it. She doesn’t know that she’ll learn to like it. Besides, you’re being honest, and the honest route is a virtuous path. Don’t tell her that you follow a virtuous path because that will sound pretentious. Take a deep breath, look her in the eye, and tell her, “I got your name tattooed over my heart.” You might get a second date. Awkward Time: when your gut tells you time and again not to do it, but passion pushes you in the wrong direction, and then some.